Getting Started
Set up Pepé in minutes and start organizing your relationship together.
1. Download & Create Account
Download Pepé
Get Pepé from the App Store on your iPhone.
Sign In
Create an account using Apple Sign-In, Google, or email. Your data syncs securely across devices.
Complete Onboarding
Enter your name, your partner's name, and your anniversary date. This personalizes your experience.
Onboarding screen where you enter your details
Partner Sync
Connect with your partner to share calendars, lists, and preferences in real-time. Everything stays synchronized automatically.
Why Connect?
- Share calendar events and see each other's plans
- Collaborate on grocery lists in real-time
- Share wishlists for gift ideas
- Get notified when your partner schedules something
Connect Using Invite Code
Generate Your Code
Go to Settings → Partner Connection → Send Invite Code. A unique 6-character code will be generated.
Share the Code
Send the code to your partner via text, email, or any messaging app.
Partner Enters Code
Your partner opens Pepé, goes to Settings → Partner Connection → Enter Code, and enters the 6-character code.
Accept the Request
You'll see a pending request. Tap the checkmark to accept and you're connected!
Partner Connection screen with invite options
Connect by Username
Already know your partner's username? Search for them directly:
Search Partner
Go to Settings → Partner Connection → Search by Username.
Send Request
Find your partner and send a connection request. They'll receive a notification to accept.
Shared Calendar
Plan your life together with a shared calendar. Add events, set reminders, and never miss an important date.
Adding Events
Open Calendar
Tap the Calendar tab at the bottom. Switch between Month and List views using the toggle at the top.
Create New Event
Tap the + button in the top right corner.
Fill in Details
Add a title, choose a category (Dinner, Movie, Trip, etc.), set the date/time, and add a location.
Share with Partner
Toggle "Share with Partner" to make the event visible on their calendar too.
Calendar view with events and day highlights
Event Categories
Organize events by type: Dinner, Movie, Trip, Activity, Meeting, and more. Each has a unique color for easy identification.
Reminders
Set reminders before events so you never forget. Choose from 1 hour, 1 day, or custom reminder times.
Recurring Events
Set events to repeat daily, weekly, monthly, or yearly for regular date nights or routines.
Mark Complete
After an event, mark it complete to move it to your Memories section where you can add photos and reviews.
Planning Date Nights
Never run out of date ideas! Browse curated suggestions that adapt to the season and upcoming holidays, then schedule them with venue search.
Browse & Schedule Date Ideas
Open Date Ideas
From the Calendar (List view), tap "Date Ideas" in the "Plan Something Special" section.
Browse Suggestions
Explore 50+ date ideas organized by category: Romantic, Adventure, Culinary, Entertainment, Creative, and Seasonal. Ideas adapt to the current season and upcoming holidays.
Select a Date Idea
Tap any idea to see details including duration, cost level, and whether it's indoor/outdoor.
Schedule It
Tap "Schedule This Date" to open the scheduling wizard.
Date ideas adapted to the current season
Scheduling with Venue Search
When scheduling a date, you can search for real venues nearby:
Pick a Date
Choose the date using the calendar picker.
Choose a Time
Select from quick-pick options (Lunch, Happy Hour, Evening) or set an exact time.
Find a Venue
Search for nearby venues based on the date type. For a "Couples Massage," you'll see nearby spas. For "Wine Tasting," you'll see wineries and wine bars.
Add to Calendar
Confirm and add the date to your shared calendar. Your partner will be notified!
💡 Pro Tip: Seasonal & Holiday Ideas
Date ideas automatically prioritize what's relevant. In December, you'll see holiday-themed dates like "Christmas Lights Tour" and "Hot Chocolate Crawl." Around Valentine's Day, romantic options rise to the top.
Scheduling Meetings
Beyond date nights, Pepé helps you schedule important relationship conversations like family meetings, budget discussions, and conflict resolution.
Meeting Types Available
- Weekly Check-in: Regular touchbase to stay connected
- Monthly Planning: Plan the month ahead together
- Family Meeting: Discuss household decisions and family matters
- Conflict Resolution: Dedicated time to work through disagreements constructively
- Budget Review: Review finances and spending together
- Goal Setting: Set and review personal and couple goals
Schedule a Meeting
Open Meeting Scheduler
From the Calendar (List view), tap "Meeting" in the "Plan Something Special" section.
Choose Meeting Type
Select the type that fits your needs. This pre-fills suggested agenda items.
Set Date & Duration
Pick when to meet and how long (30 min to 2 hours).
Add Agenda Items
Use suggested topics or add your own. This keeps your meeting focused and productive.
Set Recurrence
Make it recurring for regular check-ins. Weekly check-ins and monthly planning work great on a schedule.
Meeting scheduler with agenda items
💡 Making Meetings Effective
Setting a specific time for important conversations removes the "we need to talk" anxiety. A weekly 30-minute check-in can prevent small issues from becoming big problems. The agenda keeps you focused so meetings don't drag on.
Shared Grocery Lists
Create shopping lists that sync in real-time. Add store locations, photos of products, and links so your partner knows exactly what to get.
Create a Grocery List
Open Shared Lists
Navigate to the Lists tab (or find it in your app navigation).
Create New List
Tap the + button and give your list a name (e.g., "Weekly Groceries").
Add Store (Optional)
Tap the location button to search for nearby stores. Select your store to save the address and see if it's open.
Use Quick Templates
Tap preset buttons like "Trader Joe's," "Costco," or "Target" to auto-fill the store name and find the nearest location.
Create a list with store location
Add Items with Photos & Links
Help your partner find exactly the right product:
Add Item Name
Enter what you need (e.g., "Oat Milk").
Add Quantity
Specify amounts like "2," "1 dozen," or "500g".
Add a Photo
Take a photo or choose from your library. Perfect for showing the exact brand or package you want.
Add a Link
Paste a product link so your partner can see exactly what to look for online.
Photo Attachments
Snap a photo of the product so there's no confusion about which brand or variety you need.
Product Links
Paste Amazon, Target, or store links so your partner can see the exact product online.
Real-time Sync
When your partner checks off an item at the store, you'll see it update instantly.
Store Locations
See store address, whether it's open, and ratings to plan your shopping trip.
💡 Never Buy the Wrong Item Again
Adding photos to grocery items eliminates the "which one did you want?" texts. Snap a picture of the exact cereal box, skincare product, or specialty item and your partner will know precisely what to grab.
Memories
Turn past events into cherished memories by adding photos and reviews. Look back on all the wonderful times you've shared.
Creating Memories
Complete an Event
After a date or event, mark it as complete by tapping the checkbox next to it in your calendar.
Open Event Details
Tap on the completed event to open its details.
Add Photos
Upload photos from the event to preserve the memories.
Write a Review
Rate the experience (1-5 stars) and add notes about what you loved or would do differently.
Browse Your Memories
Access all your past events from the Calendar (List view) by tapping "Memories":
- Search: Find memories by name, location, or notes
- Filter by Category: See only dinners, trips, movies, etc.
- Filter by Date: View this month, last month, or all time
- Photo Filter: Show only memories with photos
- Review Filter: Show only memories with reviews
Memories view with photos and reviews
Wishlists & Preferences
Keep track of everything your partner loves. From clothing sizes to gift ideas, never forget an important detail.
Categories You Can Track
Clothing Sizes
Food Preferences
Gift Ideas
Special Dates
Entertainment
Travel Dreams
Home & Living
Beauty & Self-Care
Adding Preferences
Choose a Category
From the Home screen, navigate to Categories or tap the + button.
Add Details
Enter a title (e.g., "Shirt Size") and value (e.g., "Medium" or "Size 8").
Mark as Favorite
Star important items to see them on your Home dashboard.
Add Links
For gift ideas, add product links so they're easy to purchase later.
Perfect for Gift-Giving
- Track clothing sizes so gifts always fit
- Save wishlist items with links for easy purchasing
- Record favorite colors, brands, and styles
- Note allergies and dislikes to avoid bad gifts
- Share wishlists with your partner for hints
Finding Restaurants
Discover new restaurants nearby, check ratings and reviews, and make reservations seamlessly.
Discover & Reserve
Open Restaurant Discovery
From Calendar (List view), tap "Restaurants" in the "Plan Something Special" section.
Browse Nearby Options
See restaurants near your location with ratings, price levels, and whether they're currently open.
Filter & Search
Search for specific cuisines or filter by rating and price.
Make a Reservation
Tap "Reserve a Table" to open OpenTable, Resy, or Yelp. After booking, you'll be prompted to add it to your shared calendar.
Ready to Get Started?
Download Pepé and start organizing your relationship today.
